Holiday Hangover

January is finally upon us, and most of the Ottawa Valley is still getting over their holiday hangover. If you're among the majority, you overate, had to mingle with someone you try to avoid the rest of the year, and are tragically broke. Over the years it seems like Christmas has become more Bah Humbug than ever. With ever-increasing market prices and continually shrinking budgets, anxiety and scorn for the holidays is on the rise.

Second jobs, second mortgages, maxed out limits. This is what the holidays have become. The belief that one can buy happiness during this season starts well before the first snowfall - and in this part of Canada that's saying a lot. This time of year seems to have gone from simple family values to a push for bottom dollar profits. No, not everybody celebrates Christmas, but this issue goes beyond religion and beliefs. It addresses the connection we as humans feel for each other, how we get together during the cold, hard nights to share a meal, and just be in each other's company. This is what it should be about. Not who can out-buy whom.

But I'm not entirely immune to the consumer world, and I do, in fact, enjoy receiving a gift or two. The difference is that there are gifts one can purchase that stay true to what this time of year should be about. So, should you feel compelled to share some monetary love, here are some suggestions that will show you care without making you fall victim to the retail beast:

1. Buy an international relief voucher for those in need in other countries. This gift gives friends and family an opportunity to choose what they want to donate such as a water pump or a goat. Websites like Samaritan's Purse is an example of this operation.

2. Make something. There are plenty of crafts and gift ideas you can find at your local craft store or even at larger chains such as Michaels where you can pick up a kit to make a personalized present.

3. Do something together. Instead of buying another life-absorbing gadget, purchase an event that everyone can do together and bring back the family or friend road trip. These events don't have to be expensive but can still bring out the best in everyone. Locally, you can check out Urban Quest for a city-slicker scavenger hunt.

So next year don't get caught up in the anxiety of the season, don't stress over the hottest toy or the sparkly bracelet. Instead, sit back, relax, and reflect on what the season is all about. It'll save you getting caught in the parking lot mayhem, keep some cash in your wallet, and maybe - just maybe - reawaken the love of the holidays.

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